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What is Unschooling?
Earl Stevens
This article appeared in "At Home In New England," (#28) reprinted by permission.
copyright © 1994

"What we want to see is the child in pursuit of knowledge, not knowledge in pursuit of the child."
-- George Bernard Shaw

It is very satisfying for parents to see their children in pursuit of knowledge. It is natural and healthy for the children, and in the first few years of life the pursuit goes on during every waking hour. Bur after a few short years most kids go to school. The schools also want to see children in pursuit of knowledge, but the schools want them to pursue mainly the school's knowledge and devote 12 years of life to doing so.

In his acceptance speech for the New York City Teacher of the Year award, John Gatto said, "Schools were designed by Horace Mann. . .and others to be instruments of the scientific management of a mass population." In the interests of managing each generation of children, the public school curriculum has become hopelessly flawed attempt to define education and to find a way of delivering that definition to vast numbers of children.

The traditional curriculum assumes that children must be pursued by knowledge because they will never pursue it themselves. It was no doubt noticed that, when given a choice, most children prefer not to do schoolwork. Since, in a school, knowledge is defined as schoolwork, it is easy for educators to conclude that children don't like to acquire knowledge. Thus schooling came to be a method of controlling children and forcing them to do whatever educators decided was beneficial for them. Most children don't like textbooks, workbooks, quizzes, rote memorization, and subject schedules. One can discover this, even with polite and devoted children, by asking them if they would like to add more time to their daily schedule. I feel certain that most will decline the offer.

The work of a school teacher is not the same as that of a homeschooling parent. In most places a teacher is hired to deliver a ready-made, standardized, year-long curriculum to 25-30 age-segregated children who are confined in a building all day. The teacher must use a standard curriculum, not because it is the best approach for encouraging any individual child to learn the things that need to be known, but because it is a convenient way to handle and track large numbers of kids. The school curriculum is understandable only in context of bringing administrative order out of daily chaos, of giving direction to unruly children and to unpredictable teachers. It is a system that staggers ever onward but never upward, and every morning we read about the results in our newspapers.

But despite the differences between the school environment and the home, many parents begin homeschooling under the impression that homeschooling can be pursued only by following some variant of the traditional public school curriculum in the home. Preoccupied with the idea of 'equivalent education,' state and local education officials assume that we must share their educational goals and that we homeschool simply because we don't want our children our kids to be inside their buildings. Textbook and curriculum publishing companies go to great lengths to assure us that we must buy their products if we expect our children to be properly educated. As if this is not enough, there are national, state, and local support organizations which have practically adopted the use of the traditional curriculum and the school-in-the-home image of homeschooling as a de facto membership requirement. In the midst of all this, it is very difficult for a new homeschooling family to think that an alternative approach is possible.

One alternative approach in 'unschooling,' also known as 'natural learning' or 'experienced-based learning.' Several weeks ago when our Southern Maine Home Education Support Networks announced a gathering to discuss unschooling we thought a dozen or so people might attend, but more than 100 adults and children showed up. For three hours parents took turns talking about their homeschooling experiences and about unschooling. Many people said afterward that they left the meeting feeling reinforced and exhilarated, not because anybody told them what to do or gave them a magic formula, but because they grew more secure in deciding for themselves what to do. Sharing ideas about this topic left them feeling empowered.

Before I talk about what I think unschooling is, I must talk about what it isn't. Unschooling isn't a recipe, and therefore it can't be explained in recipe terms. It is impossible to give unschooling directions for people to follow so that it can be tried for a week or so to see if it works. Unschooling isn't a method, it is a way of looking at children and at life. It encourages trust in both parents and children to find the paths that work the best for them without depending on educational institutions, publishing companies, or experts to tell them what to do.

Unschooling does not mean that parents can never teach anything to their children, or that children should learn about life entirely on their own without the help and guidance of their parents. Unschooling does not mean that parents give up active participation in the education and development of their children and simply hope that something good will happen. Finally, since many unschooling families have definite plans for college, unschooling does not even mean that kids should never take a course in any kind of a school.

Then what is unschooling? I can't speak for every person who uses the term, but I can talk about my own experiences. Our son Jamie who was 11 at the time of this writing, has never had an academic lesson, has never been told to read or to learn mathematics, science, or history. Nobody has told him about phonics. He has never taken a test or has been asked to study or memorize anything. When people ask "What do you do?" My answer is that we follow our interests, and our interests inevitably lead to science, literature, history, mathematics, music all the things that have interested people before anybody thought of them as 'subjects.'

To me a large component of unschooling is grounded in doing real things, not because we hope they will be good for us, but because they are intrinsically fascinating. There is an energy that comes from this that you can't buy with a curriculum. Kids do real things all day long, and in a supportive home environment those things invariably tend toward healthy development and valuable knowledge. It is natural for children to read, write, play with numbers, learn about society, find out about the pat, think, wonder and do all those things that we so unsuccessfully attempt to force upon them in the context of schooling.

While few of us get out of bed in the morning in the mood for a "learning experience," I hope that all of us get up feeling in the mood for life. Children always do so unless they are ill or unless life is made so overly tedious and confusing for them. children don't love to learn, they love to do, and in the act of doing they learn. Sometimes the problem for the parent is that it is rather difficult to determine if anything important is actually going on. It is a little bit watching a garden grow. No matter how closely we examine the garden it is difficult to verify that anything is happening at that particular moment. But as the season progresses we can see that much has happened, quietly and naturally. children pursue life, and, in doing so, pursue knowledge. They need adults to trust in the inevitability of this very natural phenomenon and to offer what assistance they can.

Parents come to our unschooling discussions with many questions bout fulfilling state requirements. The ask: "How do unschoolers explain themselves to the state when they fill our the paperwork every year?" "If you don't use a curriculum, what do you say?" "What about required record keeping?" To my knowledge unschoolers have had no problems with the Maine Department of Education over matter of this kind. This is a time when even many public school educators are trying to get away from the traditional curriculum, seeking alternatives to fragmented learning and drudgery.

When I fill out the required paperwork for homeschooling under Maine's Chapter 130, I briefly describe in the space provided, what we are currently doing and the general intent of what we plan to do for the coming year. I don't include long lists of books or describe any of the step-by-step skills associated with a curriculum. For example, under English/Language Arts, I mentioned that Jamie's best 'subject' is the English Language. I said a few words about our family library. I mentioned that Jamie reads a great deal and uses our Macintosh computer for whatever writing he happens to do. finally I said, "Since he already does so well on his own we have decided not to introduce language skills as a subject to be studied. It seems to make more sense for us to leave him to his own continuing success."

Homeschooling is a unique opportunity for each family to do whatever makes sense for the growth and development of their children. If we have a reason for using a curriculum and traditional school materials, we are free to use them. They are not a universally necessary or required component of our homeschooling programs, either educational or legally.

I don't mean to suggest, with everything I have said here, that using a curriculum or a textbook or taking an examination is some kind of horrible educational error. But I do believe that allowing these things to dominate and to be the defining, driving force behind the education of a child is a mistake both in the school and in the home. As I have mentioned, even educators are beginning to question the preplanned, year-long-curriculum as an outdated, 19th century educational tool. There is no reason that families should be less flexible and innovative than schools.

Anne Sullivan, Helen Keller's mentor and friend, said, "I am beginning to suspect all elaborate and special systems of education. They seem to me to be built upon the supposition that every child is a kind of idiot who must taught to think. Whereas if the child is left to himself, he will think more and better, if less slowly. Let him come and go freely, let him touch real things and combine his impressions for himself, instead of sitting indoors at a little round table while a sweet-voiced teacher suggest that he build a stone wall with his wooden blocks, or make a rainbow out of strips of colored paper, or plant straw trees in flower pots. Such teaching fills the mind with artificial associations that must be got rid of before the child can develop independent ideas out of actual experiences. " Homeschooling uniquely affords children an opportunity to step away from systems and methods and to develop independent idea out of actual experiences, where the child is truly in pursuit of knowledge, not the other way around.

 


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